Friday, September 26, 2008

The Turtle pond

Bereaved visualize their loss in many ways. Turtle Pond at University of Texas Austin is the outstanding example of facilitating family members to deal with their grief.

Friends, Housemate, and Family

First time I learn that I am social creature was in kindergarten- I cannot remember my life stories before that time. I can recall stories that happen before my kindergarten age but mostly I can only get the unhappy stories. I am sure there is scientific explanation why I can only recall unhappy stories before age of five. Well, I do not intent to lecture about children development stages now, yet I really share personal experience of my childhood stories. I had three friends at the age of five, of course I do not count my brother and sister as friend since I knew the concept of family, and we were live in a labor housing in Jakarta because our parents were labor in textile factories nearby. I spent my time with them and it became routine activities. I knew that I could play at home alone, but I realized that I could have lot of fun with my friends. I could laugh for funny movie, but friends made me able to laugh out loud of something simply funny.